in case i forget | Theology and Testimony Reminders for Godly Wives and Mothers

ep. 10 - Theological Triage - Navigating Core Christian Beliefs | Theology for Busy Moms and Wives

Theological Triage: How Christians Prioritize Beliefs
What Is Theological Triage?
Think about going to the emergency room.
Doctors do not treat every problem the same way.
They first figure out how serious the problem is.
This process is called triage.
The same idea can help us understand Christian beliefs.
Not every belief carries the same weight.
Christians often sort beliefs into three levels:
1. Primary doctrines
2. Secondary doctrines
3. Tertiary doctrines
This helps us know:
• What we must agree on
• What we can disagree on
• What is simply personal conviction
Why Doctrine Matters
Doctrine is not the enemy of love.
We actually need good doctrine to love people well.
Paul talks about this in:
1 Timothy 1:3
Believers are warned not to teach false doctrine.
But doctrine without love is also empty.
1 Corinthians 13 reminds us that truth must be carried with love.
Healthy Christianity always holds truth and love together.
Primary Doctrine (Essential Beliefs)
Primary doctrines are the core truths of Christianity.
Every true Christian church agrees on these.
Examples include:
• Jesus is God
• God is Father, Son, and Holy Spirit
• Jesus was born of a virgin
• Jesus lived a sinless life
• Jesus died for our sins
• Jesus rose again
If someone denies these truths, they are not teaching biblical Christianity.
Two historic creeds help summarize these beliefs:
Nicene Creed
Apostles' Creed
These early creeds help show what the early church believed about Jesus and the Christian faith.
Secondary Doctrine (Church Differences)
Secondary doctrines are important, but Christians can disagree about them.
These differences often explain why we have different denominations.
Examples include:
• Predestination vs free will
• Spiritual gifts today or not
• Worship styles
• Church traditions
• End times views
Christians may disagree here, but they can still be brothers and sisters in Christ.
These beliefs often help families decide which church to attend.
A Warning About Secondary Issues
Sometimes Christians treat secondary beliefs like they are primary.
This creates unnecessary division.
We should not turn personal preferences into salvation issues.
Scripture does not ask us to die on every hill.
It calls us to protect unity while holding to truth.
Tertiary Doctrine (Personal Convictions)
Tertiary beliefs are personal convictions.
They may matter to one believer but not to another.
Paul talks about this idea in 1 Corinthians 10.
Believers have freedom in some areas, but we should always ask:
• Is this helpful?
• Does it build others up?
• Does it honor God?
Paul sums it up in 1 Corinthians 10:31:
“Whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”
Other helpful guidance:
Philippians 4:8
Think about what is true, pure, and honorable.
James 3:17
Seek wisdom that comes from God.
A Personal Example
Miki shares a story from when she was 17.
An older woman once told her it was a sin to wear big hoop earrings.
For years she believed it.
Later she searched the Bible and realized that this was not a biblical rule.
It was simply someone's personal conviction.
This is a great example of a tertiary belief being treated like a primary one.
Why This Matters
Understanding theological triage helps us:
• Raise our kids in truth
• Navigate church transitions
• Avoid unnecessary conflict
• Keep the main things the main things
Not every disagreement needs to divide the church.
But the core truths of the gospel must always be protected.
Question for You: What is one belief you were taught growing up that might actually be a tertiary issue?
Something that felt like a rule but was really a personal conviction?
Share it in the comments if you are comfortable.
Next Episode
Next we will talk about another big question:
Are denominations helpful or harmful to the church?
And how should Christians think about them?
If this episode helped you, please like the video and share it with someone who might enjoy the conversation.
Be blessed and I will see you next time.

ep. 9 - How I overcame Coveteousness and welcomed Contentment | Testimonies and Theology for Wives & Mothers

What does it mean to not covet? How do I learn to be content as a wife and mom after giving up my career to raise children? Does God walk with me through this transition?
 
All these questions and more are answered in this video.
 
If you are a Godly wife and mom in the middle of a hard transition, struggling to remember what God has done or seeking to go a little deeper in your understanding of biblical theology, let this podcast serve as a digital ebenezer that YHWH (God) is real.
 
Quoted scripture:
Ephesians 5:1, 5 CSB
https://bible.com/bible/1713/eph.5.1-5.CSB
 
Colossians 3:5 CSB
https://bible.com/bible/1713/col.3.5.CSB
 
Ecclesiastes 6:9 CSB
[9] Better what the eyes see than wandering desire.  This too is futile and a pursuit of the wind. 
https://bible.com/bible/1713/ecc.6.9.CSB
 
Matthew 6:33 CSB
[33] But seek first the kingdom of God   , and his righteousness,   and all these things will be provided for you.  
https://bible.com/bible/1713/mat.6.33.CSB
 
#christianmotherhood #theology #christianwife #contentmentinchrist

ep. 8 - Did King James Choose the Books in the Bible? | Theology for Proverbs 31 Wives and Mothers

Can we really trust the Bible? 📖Is it just a translation of a translation of a translation?Who decided which books belong in Scripture and were books removed?01:56 – Who wrote the Bible & why consistency matters02:16 – What Scripture did Jesus use?05:45 – Why do Protestants have 66 books?07:12 – Tanakh: Torah, Prophets & Writings07:50 – How the Old Testament was already established10:59 – New Testament canon criteria explained14:59 – Council of Nicaea myths15:58 – Manuscripts & historical reliabilityIn this video, I walk through the history, canon, translations, and manuscript evidence behind the Bible while also fixing floral bouquets (because… multitasking 😄). We’ll look at what Jesus Himself believed about Scripture, how the Old and New Testament canon was recognized, and why claims about King James, the Council of Nicaea, or “lost books” don’t hold up under historical scrutiny.Scripture isn’t something humans randomly assembled. It’s something recognized over thousands of years, preserved with extraordinary care, and consistently centered on Jesus Christ. “All Scripture is breathed out by God…” — 2 Timothy 3:16🌸 Sponsor HighlightThis video is brought to you by Miles of Rosies Flowers — a flower rental company helping you create a beautiful, Pinterest-worthy wedding or event without the massive price tag or waste.👉 Visit milesofrosies.com and use the code for 10% off your floral rental: YOUTUBE2026If this video helped you, drop a comment, like, and share with someone who’s asked questions about trusting the Bible.#BibleReliability #CanWeTrustTheBible #BiblicalCanon #BibleTranslations #ChristianApologetics #JesusAndScripture #FaithAndHistory #BibleManuscripts #ChristianYouTube

ep. 7 - How I Was Recently Reminded That God Provides | Faith Bigger Than A Mustard Seed?

Chapters00:00 Introduction to Miki's Journey00:43 Testimony of God's Provision01:23 You Need A Rainy Season Fund03:32 What are in these Mystery Envelopes?08:35 Walking by Faith14:34 Creating Beautiful Bouquets14:55 Conclusion and Future PlansSummaryIn this conversation, Miki shares her journey as a business owner, mother, and wife, emphasizing the importance of faith and financial preparedness. She recounts a personal testimony of unexpected financial provision that reinforced her belief in God's faithfulness. Miki discusses the significance of having a rainy day fund and how it alleviates stress during challenging times. She also reflects on the importance of walking by faith and trusting in God's provision, even when circumstances seem dire. Additionally, Miki provides insights into her floral business and the unique model of renting flowers, highlighting her entrepreneurial journey.Keywords#florals, #smallbusinessjourney, #faith, #JehovahJireh, #rainydayfund, #testimony, #provision, #motherhood, #SAHMLifestyle, #artificialflowers 🎙️ This video is sponsored by Miles of Rosies Flowers — a floral rental studio created for couples who want beautiful, intentional wedding flowers without the pressure or excessive cost.Faith-led. Purpose-driven. Thoughtfully designed.Learn more at milesofrosies.com

ep. 6 - To Whom Much Is Given: Stewardship, Gifts, and Calling | Theology for Proverbs 31 Wives and Mothers

#smallbusinessjourney #Faithbasedbusiness #weddingflorist What does it really mean to steward your gifts well?In this episode, Miki reflects on responsibility, humility, and the weight that comes with being gifted, drawing inspiration from the Parable of the Talents. Through the lens of faith, business, and personal experience, she explores why burying your gifts isn’t humility, but avoidance, and how recognizing God’s role in our abilities actually frees us to use them boldly.As a self-described polymath, Miki also opens up about the tension of having many skills but struggling with follow-through, the dangers of pride and false humility, and why stewardship matters in every area of life . . .not just business.This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt torn between downplaying their abilities and stepping fully into what they were created to do.🤍 Sponsored by Miles of Rosies FlowersThis episode is brought to you and powered by Miles of Rosies Flowers—a faith-led floral rental studio offering elegant, affordable, and sustainable wedding and event flowers.Created for couples and organizations who value stewardship, intention, and beauty without excess, Miles of Rosies Flowers specializes in rental florals that honor both your celebration and your future.Explore floral collections or learn more about custom rentals at:👉 www.milesofrosies.comAffordable luxury. Thoughtful design. Flowers made for your love story.🧠 Key Takeaway:Your talents were never meant to be hidden. They were entrusted to you—for a purpose bigger than yourself.🎧 Chapters00:00 Navigating Business and Faith02:10 The Balance of Humility and Skill03:55 Understanding the Polymath Experience06:02 God’s Gifts and Our Responsibilities08:20 Stewardship of Talents and Gifts🔍 Keywords:talents, humility, stewardship, faith and business, christian entrepreneurship, parable of the talents, responsibility, polymath, gifts from God, purpose driven business, faith led life

ep. 5 - From Employee to Mompreneur: Starting My Silk Florist Business in #LynchburgVA

#faithbasedbusiness#smallbusinessjourney#weddingflorist #weddingonabudget00:00 Introduction to Miles of Rosies Flowers02:48 Navigating Business Without Social Media05:45 Family, Faith, and Entrepreneurship08:52 Flower Processing & Business OperationsExplore floral collections or learn more about custom rentals here:👉 https://milesofrosies.comBuilding a business doesn’t have to mean sacrificing your family, your faith, or your peace.In this video, I’m sharing the story behind Miles of Rosies Flowers — how a background in nonprofit work, a deep desire to protect my family, and a conviction to honor God led me to start a flower rental business focused on affordable wedding flowers and intentional growth.As I process flowers for upcoming weddings and events, I reflect on why I stepped away from social media, how faith continues to shape my business decisions, and what it looks like to build something meaningful without chasing algorithms or comparison.If you’re:- Planning a wedding and looking for affordable, elegant flower options- An entrepreneur trying to balance business, family, and faith- Curious whether a business can grow without relying on social media- Feeling called to a slower, more intentional pathThis video is for you.Why Flower Rentals?Wedding flowers are beautiful — but they can also be one of the most expensive parts of a wedding day. Flower rentals allow couples to enjoy thoughtfully designed arrangements at a fraction of the cost, without waste or financial stress. Every piece is reused, repurposed, and cared for with intention.Choosing Faith and Family FirstAt one point, our family took a 40% pay cut to realign our lives around what mattered most. That decision included stepping back from social media and trusting God with a slower, quieter kind of growth.This isn’t a “how-to” business video — it’s a real conversation about faith, stewardship, sustainability, and building something that serves instead of consumes.About Miles of Rosies FlowersMiles of Rosies Flowers is a floral rental studio created for couples and organizations who want:✔ Elegant wedding flowers without excess✔ Affordable floral solutions for weddings and events✔ A faith-centered, family-first approach to businessExplore floral collections or learn more about custom rentals here:👉 https://milesofrosies.com🎙 Sponsored ByThis video is brought to you and powered by Miles of Rosies Flowers — offering affordable luxury, thoughtful design, and flowers made for your love story.

ep. 4 - Only God Can Judge Me pt 2 | Theology for Proverbs 31 Wives and Mothers

In this part, I talk about when we shouldn't judge, how to judge and how to receive judgement. Be challenged, and may God use this to show you a little more about who He is. 

ep. 3 - Only God Can Judge Me - Theology for Proverbs 31 Wives and Mothers

Can only God Judge? What does scriptures have to say about judging? Tune in for part one where I break down the definition of judging its purest sense. Take a bite and let it inspire a hunger for more scripture and time with God!

ep. 2 - Fasting and Prayer Pt 2 | Theology for Proverbs 31 Wives and Mothers

More biblical evidence for what fasting is with three points on why we fast and how to fast. Sorry for the jingling .. I speak with my hands lol!

ep. 1 - Why We Fast | Theology for Proverbs 31 Wives and Mothers (PILOT)

Maybe this is a podcast lol. Idk, we'll see. 
Let me know how your fast is going and what some of your challenges are with fasting! ❤️